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Friday, May 28, 2010

I hate fighting with people. I hate arguments, I hate disagreements in general. I hardly ever stand up for myself. I let people say and do things to me that hurt and make me feel bad...and I usually forgive them and let it drop, I don't even make them apologize. But I'm seriously starting to get to the point where I'm sick of letting people treat me like that, sick of letting people hurt me, sick of not standing up for myself. I've changed a lot in the past year, been more open with myself and others with my feelings. I hate that people make me feel like I'm being selfish just because I realized that I have to take care of myself as well. I'm tired of taking care of other people and getting nothing in return.

So I'm going to say how I feel, and tell you what I think, and take care of myself, and stop giving in so easily. I'm going to stand up for myself and stick to my guns. If you owe me an apology then I'm going to tell you, and I'm not going to back down and let you get away with not giving me one.

3 comments:

Brad said...

Heya friend, hope all's well with you. We havent talked in quite awhile, hope we can remedy that sometime soon.

Unknown said...

This is why I choose to spend so much time with animals b/c people are so dissapointing and selfish. I have spent a lot of time wasted worrying and being annoyed by people. I know it's sad but you just have to remember the good people and the good things in life and remember that you are a great person and don't need those people

Unknown said...

And yes! You have to stand up for yourself. I used to not stand up for myself either and then I just realized, no- honesty is best. if they cant take it, they're not worth it...